Since Halloween was on a Saturday this year, so many things came together until the big day today. I know I won't remember all the things, but I'll see how many I can come up with by looking at my pictures and texts.
I ended up putting my ballot in the mailbox and keeping my fingers crossed. I like to put it in the ballot box in front of the library on the day of voting, but I kept wanting to get it done. Kate and I walked up to the mailboxes, and she very solemnly pushed it through the slots. She is very much aware of what horrible leadership we have now and is all for doing everything we can to get our freedoms back.
She is such a good companion and my soulmate lately. We have the best conversations, and she is so attuned to people and their problems. She's moving into her own personality, which is sometimes more subdued than usual, but there's nothing concrete to back that up. She is still wound up a lot and I think misses Graysen being more "grownup" now. They still get into their little skirmishes but more vocal than physical now.
Anyway, back to the week. I don't get the girls on Mondays since Emily sometimes works from home, and they need to go there and get ready for soccer practice and DMW while I have an afternoon off. My days all run together, but some days we worked on sewing and some days on math - where I was no help at all until about time for her to go. It takes a while for me to get all the multiplying and dividing fractions straight in my mind, and then you have to follow a different way of doing things than I'm used to.
I feel like afternoons here are hectic, and they don't get much done, but it's worse at home when they go and find more distractions over there.
I went to Mah Jongg twice this week and enjoyed both days. I don't get home until after the bus stops, and the girls have had time to get into the mac and cheese and snacks and drinks and see what's on Elise's TV menu.
We had so many people Tuesday. There were 8 people, so 2 tables plus one new person. A nice lady named Corinne who is here from Montana visiting her family after her husband passed away. She really wants to learn MJ and will be here a while and maybe even move here. She sat beside me, so I tried to indicate what hand I was building, and we told her some of the basic rules. She didn't get overwhelmed, and when Sharon had to leave early, she took the fourth seat and held her own pretty well. It take many, many lessons to get where you are comfortable playing, but she did very well. I'm hoping she'll come back next week. We gained two newbies who already know how to play, so we're getting big!
We also had two tables on Thursday, which is very unusual. Our newest player, Kathy, was back, and she, Sharon and I played 3-handed MJ while the other three played 3-handed also. A fun day. We learned a few things about dead hands and accidentally exposing a concealed hand - the hard way. I think I won a couple of games, which helped my feelings a little. I still get distracted though and wish I could pay more attention to what's going on. We can't just play though - we have to have a little conversation and playing around. That's the fun of it. We're certainly not too serious.
Thursday morning was also my 6-month dental cleaning and checkup, which I passed just fine. I had the hygienest who is very nice but also very thorough. It's always something to get over with. Just like my hair cut this morning. I enjoy talking with everyone, but it's not something I look forward to. There was a nice bunch of protestors on the corner in North Bend when I came through town. Luckily, the day was nice and dry for Halloween. It's usually either pouring or windy or both, but when Emily and Kate stopped by for trick-or-treat, they were chilly but not uncomfortable.
I didn't see the girls at all Friday. I offered to go over and help them clean their rooms or do whatever was needed to get ready for the party tonight and for a Halloween dance at school, but I didn't get any clear answer, so I left them to handle costume mishaps and last-minute problems, but when I got those pictures before they left - Oh MY. I have some grownup girls. They weren't in full costume because it was a school thing, and they wanted to be comfortable to run wild and eat and play and scream a lot. From the photo booth pictures I saw, they did ALL that! They had Avenger costumes, which is about all I know about that. Graysen was a male and was supposed to have a goatee but no way was that going to happen to hide that beautiful makeup job! Kate was a female but quite a glamorous one. I think she pulled off the hair and mask and makeup, but there was a lot of last-minute cobbling together something for a skirt and cape - or something. The pink Crocs may not have been the perfect accessory!
I'll just post all the pictures Emily sent me - or most of them -minus the ones where Ryan was coaching Kate on the stairs to do different poses. He looked like he was attacking her. They've grown into lovely ladies right before my eyes. I'm not sure what kind of role-playing looks some of them were giving, but it was nice!
Emily was in full costume yesterday for work in her Misery outfit, the Kathy Bates character. I refused to read the book or watch the movie, but from the pictures earlier, she was looking for a blue jean jumper and a plaid flannel shirt. I hope there are pictures of that!
She was too tired to dress up again tonight, so she and Kate just stopped by after the older girls went off by themselves. They were texting with some more friends and were to meet them, but we didn't worry. It's probably the safest place in town with the whole population out on the streets. They were pretty excited about that, I'm sure. I'm not sure how many are spending the night, but at least 6 and maybe 8. The last message I got said they were all back and all screaming. I asked why screaming, and she said, "Sugar?" I love it that the girls have found some sweet loyal friends and that the two group are comfortable being in each others' company. There are two sister sets and another sister that's gradually getting to know them. I worry about them constantly and want them to be happy and pray for their safety. I'm not a huge part of their lives now, rightly so, but it's hard to get them go. I'm not sure Kate won't always be there to sit by the fire and talk about sewing and prom dresses and the old days!
I'm exhausted just typing this, even with the extra hour we are gifted tonight. There are two soccer games tomorrow, I think, so it looks like everyone will be up early and leaving the ruins. Maybe I should offer to help clean up. I'll see.....I'd probably better work on the typos on here but that's for later too. And now it's November.
































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