Monday, August 31, 2026

Back to School - The Best Ever

That seems to be the consensus around the WinBin house.  It does seem to be off to a happy start, but I don't know the details.  

I don't think I've spoken a word in person to Gray this week, just a few texts here and there.  She's pretty busy!  I know she had to get to school early to participate in the welcoming of the 6th graders, and I don't know how that went.  She was excited but a little bit anxious about it.  I don't even know if Kate was in her group.  I did see a picture on FB of her standing by the Welcome Eagles sign with her friend Sawyer, both of them looking happy.  


Since they had to leave at 6:30 a.m. Wednesday morning, there were no posed front porch pictures this year.  I have had some old ones pop up in my memories, so I'll try to remember to add some of those.  

Emily picked Kate up after school, and she was bubbling with excitement, although this picture doesn't show it.  She said "everyone needs to go easy on me.  I'm new at this."  I assume, new at middle school!


Gray started cross-country practice Thursday but didn't have it Friday because of early release.  It's going to be hard to get soccer practice in on those days.  I did get the schedule and hope Elise and I can get to some of the meets.  There aren't many and only one of them too far away for me to drive.  I'll for sure try to make the home meets and the finals, which are local too.  She and Kate both are dedicated to their practicing right now!

Graysen had plans Saturday night for a sleepover, so I asked if Kate wanted to come over here for a visit or a sleepover.  It took a good bit of maneuvering of schedules (theirs, not mine!) before we could get Carly over here and both girls settled.  Emily picked up pizza on the way to Gray's sleepover with Sawyer and Eva, and Gray delivered it to our door!  That's all they wanted with lots to drink.  We taught Carly to play Rummikub, and she caught on quickly, like I knew she would, but it got a little wild for me at the end of a busy day, so we played just one game.  They settled in with a movie on my computer with lots of laughing and talking.  I think I stayed up to hear them get quiet, but I'm not sure.

I finally had to insist they get up the next morning before lunch!  I got all my laundry done and some cleaning and worked on a breakfast for them and finally got them to the table.



Not a lot of nutrition there, but there are some vegan sausages which they liked as well as bagels and cream cheese.  No one asked for anything else.  They're pretty easy to please.  The blueberries especially were so good.




They've grown so much since the first time they met.  I looked for the first picture of them I have, and it was August 4, 2021.  Such babies.  I really miss those days.


As I was looking for that picture, I found these in my camera.  I knew they were having fun, but I didn't discover what was making them laugh so hard until I saw these.  I'm sure this huge alligator has a name, but I've forgotten it.  I think I see now why she chose it instead of one of her smaller stuffies - she was expecting a loud and active night.





They spent a lot of time on shadow pictures the night before and the next morning, but this is the only picture they took.


I'm not sure what they did all afternoon, but no one accepted any parent's invitation to go home.  They ran over the park and played briefly, but it was cool and a little rainy, so they came back home.  Finally, about 5:00 I took them, along with that alligator, home.  I'm so thankful we had that time together, even if I didn't participate much.  It was enough just hearing them giggle and scream and have such a good time.  Both of them thanked me sweetly for having them.  Such sweeties.  

When I got back home, played some solo Mah Jongg and texted a little with Emily.  

Before the Charleston with not a great hand.


I brought out the pink tiles and tried to replicate the Charleston and the drawing and discarding for 4 people.  It's about as accurate as I can figure out to do with one player.  

I finally settled on a hand and came within one tile of MJ before it ended.  Not that bad!  This picture is after the first Charleston.  I did settle on the BAM hand.  I got 3 of the 4 BAM dragons before it ended but couldn't get a joker!



Those early pictures I mentioned before.  These had been posted on FB at the time.

Gray with her fall looks.


This was during a visit before we moved here.  She wasn't sure of Mimi and PopPop on first meeting, but she soon remembered us from Facetime.  




 They got to go 3 years to the same school, not counting the time they were homebound because of COVID.






And this one.  I just get so lost in memories when I look for a particular picture.  I guess there are worse ways to spend a morning.




My days are all mine now since the girls are in school.  I didn't see that much of them this summer, but there was always the possibility they would come over.  Now I have these wonderful last days of summer to enjoy.  Today I'm just drinking coffee and working on this blog and getting my September calendar up to date and seeing if I spent all my budgeted money. 

Tomorrow is Mah Jongg, but I'm still open to whether or not I'll go.  If we have a reasonable number of people, I will.  It will be fun to start getting our old groups back after the summer.  Thursday is a certainty with most of the regulars.  There is Rummikub on Mondays at the senior center, but I haven't considered that yet.  Some people play at the winery next to the library on Thursdays, and I might join them this week if there's nothing else going on.  

I always get the urge to sew in the fall, but we're trying to get all my sewing stuff changed around, so things are in three different places.  My MJ friend Sharon has started a Quilt of Valor, and it looks so pretty.  It's really tempting. 



 I need to get Elise to pick out the binding and backing for her quilt and work on that as soon as possible.  I don't think she's ever going to find just the right color and pattern of blue/green/teal, but there's always hope.  I have my 3 mini quilts for the holidays that I CAN finish if I just will!

And now that Noreen is doing so well with her knee replacement rehab, I hope we can get out and take some of those fall walks we used to enjoy.  September is beautiful here, and I want to be out there in it in the last month of my 70s!  I hope I not jinxing my good health and lack of falling in 6 years!  I have a doctor's appoint Wednesday and don't want to hear anything bad there either.  




Wednesday, August 26, 2026

School 2026-2027

 I've once again gotten myself into the black hole of forgotten posts and procrastination.  Things get busy in spurts around here, and I don't have time to write.  Then it slows down and I forget what it was that I wanted to say earlier.  

Just for today though - thoughts about the first day of school on August 26, 2026.  

Unfortunately, there were no pictures taken before school today, and someone will pay.  They might make it up by sending some tomorrow.  All days won't be like this, but this first day was designed to try to patientce and energy of everyone involved, especially the students and teachers.  I hope there's a lot of downtime tonight and no practices of any kind.  

The 8th graders in the WEB group had their training on the 21st, and I didn't hear much about it, but today was their big day.  They had to arrive at school at 6:30 a.m. and (I suppose) divide the 6th graders into groups for their orientation.  The girls were hoping to be in the same group, but there are lots of sibling sets in those two grades, so it might have been too complicated.  I hope to hear more about it when I can capture them.  

The excitement started last week when they got their teacher assignments.  I heard so many dramatic cries of "No one I know is in any of my classes!"  I can believe that about the 6th graders since there are 4 or 5 elementary schools feeding into the middle school, but the 8th graders after two years know pretty much everyone in their class.  I'm sure they mean their best friends are not in their classes.  It's been happening since the 1950s for sure.  It was very rare to get your best friend in your class, but that was the fun of it - making new friends.  I went to school with a little boy named Mike Windham but had never been in his room until sixth grade.  We sat across from each other,  I and I doubt we spoke, but I did get to know him a little bit, which came in handy when I was open for a new boyfriend in 11th grade!  I do remember having a rubber band incident with a friend's braces where the said object landed on a very judgmental 6th-grade boy's desk.  She would give me one of those teeny rubber bands to put on my front teeth to share the joy of wearing braces, and it just took off.  He was not amused at all the giggles.

Graysen knows for sure that her last period will be full of people she knows very well, since it's band, and they've been together for 2 full years.  

Her advisor - or maybe what we called a homeroom teacher - is Ms Espeland, one of her favorites.  I'm not sure how she knows her, but it may be soccer.  

Classes are 1) Social Studies.  2) Math. 3) Science. 4) Language Arts. 5) Spanish. 6) Band.  That's a nice way to end the day with some things she's sure of.  No PE this year.  Not that she needs any more activities with soccer and cross-country.

Kate has no idea what to think of her schedule since it's all new to her.  Her advisor is Mr. Alas, the band director.

Classes are 1) Science. 2) Band. 3) Language Arts. 4) Social Studies. 5) Math. and 6) PE.  Also a good ending.

Today, they will probably ride the same bus home, but tomorrow after cross-country starts, she will ride by herself - and hopefully with some friends and neighbors while Graysen will ride the activity bus at 4:30 to the elementary school where she can come here or walk home.  Lots of things have to be planned and decided.  They should be home now, but I will wait for them to tell me about their day when they feel like it.  

Back to Monday night.  They ended up sleeping over here, which I had NOT planned.  I like to know and fret and plan and make sure we're all on the same page, but sometimes it's not so bad when I get put on the spot and end up having a great time.  

The girls were over here late in the afternoon, but Kate had to leave to go to DMW.  Ryan called and asked what flavor Icee Gray wanted and asked if I wanted one too.  What a question! I rarely turn down Coke Icees, so he used that as a bribe.  When Kate brought them in, she said something about "before school sleepover?" not looking too hopeful.  It turns out there was no reason not to, except I didn't have anything planned for them to eat.  Ryan solved that problem by calling in an order for Pad Thai and spring rolls to Sno-Thai, and the girls and I walked down and picked up the order.  It ended up being a lot of food and fed the 4 of us - twice!  

I wish I had taken some pictures of an earth-shattering decision by Elise to join us for Rummikub.  It's a new game for all of us, but we all got pretty competitive, and Elise held her own - only looking lost a few times.  Kate is a tile hoarder and didn't play every turn, which is frustrating to everyone else, but Graysen was the one who surprised me at how quickly she caught on.  She and Kate were close to a tie in the number of tiles they had left, but Gray found homes for the last two and took the win.  Elise and I were not even close!  

After we cleaned that up, it was pretty late, so we got ready for bed.  I was afraid they would have a hard time going to sleep, and we were up until midnight, but it was fun and exhausting, and we all slept really well.

Graysen and I got into bed with our pillows and blankets and watched Price and Prejudice - again!  We love it so much, and it always brings out the best discussions.  I don't have a picture of her watching the movie, but here she is trying to drink the peach smoothie I made them for breakfast.  I thought it was nice and refreshing, but I didn't get quite the right combination for them to love it.  Maybe more agave next time.  




I did find a silly one of the movie time, with Jane looking out the window in hopeless despair.  It's probably pretty obvious where Elise stopped cleaning the blinds, and she did get that slat bent back from cats peeking out.  Vanilla wafers are a perfect little bedtime snack.

We could hardly distract Kate from her dragon drawing, and she gave up the movie for that.  I'm sure she's seen it enough times to imagine the scenes from the dialog.


She also suddenly lost a tooth on Monday night, a molar and maybe the last one she will ever lose. 



These dragons are very special to Kate, and she knows everything about them - and I do mean everything.  I'm learning too and get asked my advice on how to accessorize them sometimes and what to name them. 

This one's name is Sahara.  I may have picked up on the fact that it was a sand dragon, but I'm not sure.  The mask might be there because of sand storms or just a cute accessory.  My favorite things are the little legs.  She's dainty, yet ferocious, because dragons just have to be.  They also make good pets though.


They left in the middle of the morning to go take a walk with their friends, probably to Starbucks to get a REAL BREAKFAST.  Gray had had to run 2 miles the night before and needed 2 more miles that day for xc training.  She also had soccer practice after all that.  

This was my FB post last year on their first day of 5th and 7th grades.  They've grown several inches since then!




I've done nothing all morning but make a grocery list and order groceries.  I was going to the grocery store, but when I decided to check prices, I really noticed that Amazon Fresh and Whole Foods are cheaper than the two grocery stores we have to chose from right here.  Even with the tip, it turns out very close, and no one has to go in and forget half the stuff and run out of energy just as I reach the self-check line.  So I'm waiting to get that delivery between 5 and 7 and find room for it all.  

I'm getting a little hungry, but I didn't eat lunch and had only a cup of coffee and some cottage cheese, cantaloupe, and walnuts.  That coffee was good!  I've stopped trying to drink it black and just adding whatever it takes to make it good.  This week it's Coffee Mate Zero Sugar French Vanilla.  I think. Maybe I'll have another cup while I wait for the groceries to arrive.


Saturday, August 8, 2026

Cat Sitting and Gardening

 That sounds like I'm actually doing something.  

The cat sitting I have down to a science.  Open the door, greet sweet Gus, and feed him.  The rest of the time is sitting beside him and letting him sleep or roll over and touch me with his paws.  I can't think of too many things more enjoyable.  

My visit the first evening after he had been by himself for more of the day.  He had no idea who it was, but I think he did recognize my voice and talked a good bit to me.



He had already eaten that day, so I checked his water and gave him a few treats, which he didn't seem to be too interested in.  He liked to sit beside me while I listened to my audio book and caught up with deleting emails.  He did keep his eyes and ears focused on the front door, because I wasn't exactly his first choice.


What a fur ball.  He and I worked on smoothing down his under-the-chin section, and then he watched me water the back yard plants.  I wish I could have let him out in the fenced yard, but I couldn't take a chance on him escaping. 


This is the third day, and he's resigned to my being his person forever and greets me and rolls around and lets me brush him.  He's also content to take long naps and leave me to whatever I'm doing. 




It's so hard to leave him at night.  I go over in the mornings and stay for a couple of hours and then back in the evening after Elise and I water the garden, but he still would prefer not to be alone, I can tell.  


I did a good bit of neatening up some of the plants and watering them.  The sweet peas had taken over the side bed and was smothering the dahlias, so I trimmed them back to bloom again later and brought a few dahlias (probably 20 of them) home to enjoy and share.



I might be in trouble for taking the clippers to some of the front bed plants.  A couple of next-door cats have been sleeping in a bed of yarrow and just flattened it out over the walkway.  I trimmed that back pretty severely and once looked up and saw the gray cat watching me from the next yard.  

I got to have a nice conversation with a neighbor whom I hadn't talked to in a few years.  His daughter and Graysen started kindergarten together, and we were the designated pick-up relatives and birthday party chaperones and just generally ran into each other nearly every day.  He's from India, and I'm from the South, so we enjoyed sharing and laughing about our different customs and adjusting to Washington's weather.  Since the girls have grown older and are no longer being picked up, we just haven't run into each other in a few years.  Schradda is devoted to tennis and spends a lot of her time on lessons and tournaments, and Graysen is the same with soccer.  I miss those days when the girls had simple little lives.  Now our discussions are teenagers and phones and how glad we are not to have cobras and rattlesnakes here.  

Speaking of soccer, Graysen's team, the one that got second place here in the Cascade Cup last month, is playing in San Diego this weekend and doing great.  They won Friday and Saturday and will be playing in the finals tomorrow.  This is a sweet and very talented group of girls, and I hope to get to watch them play this fall before I hibernate for the winter.  Some of them will be playing on the middle school team in just a few weeks too.


Maija and Graysen, also teammates at Snoqualmie Middle School.


I'm still waiting on some pictures from the current tournament.  Emily sent me a short video from Friday but I don't know if I can get it to work here.  I'll try that tomorrow along with Ryan's video of Kate doing 25 pushups beside the pool.

In the meantime, they seem to be having the time of their lives, all staying at the same hotel with the rooftop pool to swim in at night and the ocean during the mornings.  


Little sisters get in on the fun too! 





Wednesday, August 5, 2026

Summer is Going Fast


Life is going fast!  Not just summer.  I miss (a little bit) hot summers, at least a few weeks of heat.  It's so unpredictable, being hot one day and then cooling down a little and getting just too cool to sit outside.  The last time I took the girls swimming, just Kate and Carly this time, I had to keep giving them hints to cut our visit short because I was so cold.  We didn't get there until 4:00, and there was no sunshine on the pool itself, and there was also a breeze.  I took all the towels we brought and wrapped up in them and still was cool.  The only good thing is that with no air conditioning, my power bills are lower than usual.

So what else has happened?  

Yesterday, we had eight for Mah Jongg!  That's the biggest group we've had in a long time.  We played 4 games, and 2 of them were wall games, and the other two I didn't win.  I felt like it was a joker-free day for me, but it was still fun.  I got caught daydreaming - or whatever it is I do - twice - when I have to be brought back to the action.  

Wildfires and the smoke index are on everyone's minds, with the terrible forest fires around Spokane and in Canada.  So sad.  I really haven't had any trouble breathing when I go out or noticed the air quality that much, but I've not been outside that much.

I finished Cilka's Journey by Heather Morris.  It really is a good book, and in spite of the subject, I enjoyed it as much as her other book, The Tattooist of Auschwitz, and would recommend them.  

The Credence book was nothing like I thought, and I lasted only a couple of chapters.  It's much too long to suffer through.  

I've been listening the last few days to Hello, Beautiful by Ann Napolitano.


Here's a nice review by Kirkus.  I had forgotten she wrote Dear Edward in 2020 - another one I enjoyed reading.  

The three downloads on Libby right now are Bright Young Women by Jessica Knoll, Honor by Thrifty Unagar and Little Girl Lost by Cheryl Bradshaw.  Sometimes I wonder where I get these recommendations.  I read about 2 chapters of the first one and decided I'm not that interested in serial killers, so I'll start one of the other ones today and see.  I have a bunch on hold from the library and so many lists of have-to reads that I feel like I'll always have something good to read.  

I'll be busy this weekend through next week, as the WinBins are off on another jaunt.  This time it's a 3-day soccer tournament in San Diego followed by several days of Disney adventures.  Elise and I will visit Gus every day and feed and play with him while lucky Woodrow gets to go to another doggy vacation.  We'll water the flowers and the garden if it doesn't rain and keep an eye on things.  I wish I could say I wouldn't fret and worry, but that wouldn't be true.  I'll have to plan some distractions.

I had a fun phone call with my cousin Carol this week, and it was so nice to talk with her.  We're battling with the USPS over getting a shirt Emily left in Andalusia mailed back.  Hopefully, the third try will be the charm.  

I spent a couple of hours with Ryan and Emily Sunday afternoon, trying to tie up loose ends before their trip, updating my calendar, and getting help from Ryan with some of my computer questions.  They know what they're doing, and I don't any more, so those instructions and fixes come fast and hard, and my brain gets overloaded.  I think I have things more like I want them and can enjoy this nice smaller computer.  

I had to visit my bank Monday, which is a very rare occurrence.  I have two places in my life that I give money to that don't take credit card payments.  I knew I was getting low on checks but kept forgetting to order more.  The haircut place, I can give cash to if I think ahead, but the insurance people from Mike's last job, PCCA, want only a check every month.  I ordered a box of checks last week, but they won't be mailed in time, so I had to go in and get counter checks.  I can't remember the last time I got any of those and had forgotten what they were called.  I also don't think I had to pay a dollar apiece for them at the time either, but they are nicely printed with the correct information.  

I've taken no pictures lately, so I'll go and pull up a few August 5th ones through the years.

2025



Girls were on their way to visit their South Dakota grandparents and all the other relatives.

2024


Back when they were both playing soccer.


2023




I was getting some help on my refrigerator cleaning on that day in 2023.  Graysen had her cute short haircut after donating her hair to Locks of Love, I think, or one of the charities that make wigs for children with cancer or other medical conditions.  

2022



In South Dakota again, this time at their cousin Logan's wedding to Hannah.

2021



A peek through my dining room window at Layla and Bowie, looking extremely guilty!

2020



COVID isolation days.  I spent a lot of time on my balcony, missing my family.

2019


Summer fun!  A slime-making kit that we survived and a dance camp at Mount Si Recreation. 

2018



Kate getting ready to start preschool at Rooster Valley.

2017


So little.  Ages 2 and 4.  How I miss those sweet babies.

2016


Mike entertaining the girls in spite of feeling terrible.  We just didn't know how few days we had with him.

2015



Before we moved to WA.  There's a baby on the edge of that quilt!  An almost-3

-month-old baby.





A night at Mount Si Park.  I could hardly believe my luck at having plans to move there coming true.

2014



I think this is a visit to Snoqualmie.  It's hard to pick just one pic.

2013


Mama's favorite time of day with her cat Stella/Molly.  She had just turned 90 years old.


We were just living for pictures of this girl and Face Time and videos - anything we could get.

2012



I was all into quilting and baby sewing and wondering if the baby-to-be was a boy or a girl. 

2011

I can't seem to get pictures from my photo album, so I'll just have to find one from the blog.  This is the Texas vine Mike bought me when I was in Lubbock for his appendectomy.  We were doing a lot of yard work and getting the house ready to sell.  

2010








Smocking classes, gardening, trips to Lubbock. Working.  Taking care of Mama's needs.  Living a good life!

2009


Sweet Darby and Sheepie!

That's as close as I can come to August memories for 17 years.  What a good life and good times.  I've been so lucky.